We at HIMH often about how “marriage and singleness are equally valuable modes we fulfill the mission to make disciples.”

But how can we to-our-core believe this if we view life only as a timeline? … You are born, you go to school, you get married, you make Christian babies, you tithe, and you die.

“Single people?” Married people say with this timeline in mind. “Uh, yeah, you’re valuable. You don’t fit the script, but you’re great!!!!!!”

We married folk are well-meaning, but a tad insincere.

However, if we do not view life simply as a timeline, rather a group of gardens to cultivate with Gardener God?

Suddenly, life gets interesting. It’s 4D. We truly view each other as equally valuable, and as necessary to thriving as the Body of Christ.

Throw on some overalls and grab a trowel; it’s time to join Matt and Laurie as they unpack Intro Part 1 to the Gardens Series.

The Gardens:

Intellectual: Engaging topics of the mind about things that are traditionally non-emotional like concepts, ideas, facts

Physical: Connecting and caring physically such as hugs, hand-holding, sensual touch, sex (but not necessarily holistic-sex), touch, hugs, anything that cares for the physical/tactile body (physical exercise, eating healthy)

Emotional: Talking, crying, laughing, connecting to feelings, hopes, etc.

Spiritual: Church attendance, Bible study, worship, prayer

Social: Relational with each other and/or others

Stewardship: The way that we prioritize and direct the resources God has given us such as our skills, time, money, spiritual gifts, and votes

Family: Relationships to family including children, in-laws, and extended family

Do the Next Thing:

Watch this conversation!

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We mentioned a test you can take to learn more? You can purchase the Impossible Marriage workshop here or invite us to come to do a teaching or marriage workshop on this! Reach out to Michele at events@lauriekrieg.com